To be chosen out loud, for the effort that says “you matter", the love you know you were designed for — not the one you’ve been settling for.
Waiting
Every pause, every text, every tone — just to feel safe… and still not feeling safe. even when he's a good man.
Overthinking
Doing everything “right” - Holding the relationship, the vision, the emotions and pretending it's not heavy.
Doing the most
Every hard conversation, every repair, every moment of depth, while craving to be the spoiled wife, not the emotional manager.
Initiating
THE SHIFT YOU’RE ABOUT TO EXPERIENCE:
Finally feel safe in love — no overthinking, no freaking out.
(The kind of love that feels like “I’ve got you”)
Be pursued, prioritized, and chosen in the way you’ve always prayed for
(No confusion. No overgiving.
Just holy devotion.)
Soften without sacrificing your standards, your needs, or your self-respect
(Because you don’t have to choose between being loved and being you.)
You’re not confused about what you want and that's why you're here.
Whether you’re single and dating to marry, You’re waiting for your boyfriend to propose, or married to a good man who still gives you butterflies…
There’s a part of you that stays guarded.
Not loud. Not dramatic. Just... braced.
You scan for shifts in tone. You overanalyze the “hey” without an emoji in a text. You soften and then flinch. You wait for the other shoe to drop, even when he’s steady. And it’s not because the love isn’t here. It’s because your body doesn’t know how to feel safe inside it.
Even the most emotionally intelligent women can struggle to receive the very thing she was made for if she’s spent years learning to protect herself from love, instead of feeling held by it.
But let’s be clear:
You’re not needy.
You’re not confused.
And you don’t need to be “fixed.”
You are a self-aware lover girl, who's born to loved like she's the greatest gift on earth.
By becoming the kind of woman whose presence is the prayer and whose softness makes love feel like a home he never wants to leave.
"After our session today I got asked out twice at Whole foods by cuties. I also had men staring at me in awe with no makeup and my hair in a bun. It’s been years since men approached me. Now I can’t go anywhere without being asked out."
"I know I'm the whole package, but I am barley even getting asked out and I'm ready to be a wife"
"The Wifey Profile Upgrade was so empowering and so good, that 2 hours after I met my man and he's definitely my forever"
"I'm 43 and want to be a mother, I've only ever settled with men and I'm done with that."
You don’t become the most loved woman on earth by trying harder.
You become her the moment your body believes you already are.
Not when he proposes. Not when the relationship finally feels “secure.” And not when you’ve healed every last trigger, but when your nervous system knows:
You're not just safe to love — you're safe to be *deeply loved and cherished*.
When your nervous system learns to relax in what you used to overthink.
This is the shift that changes everything.
The moment when romance stops feeling like a job interview…
And starts feeling like the thing you were born to be great at.
The women I work with don’t just “call in love.”
They create *devotional, legacy-level love stories* —
The kind that feel like honeymoon phase forever.
The kind a man never stops choosing.
The kind that become bestselling books and generational blueprints.
It’s about becoming the woman whose presence is the answered prayer.
The one he brags about.
Plans around.
Stays up late studying, just to love her better.
She becomes the woman a good man never stops pursuing.
And yes — she gets *everything* she asked God for… and more.
This isn’t just another love coaching container or talk therapy.
It’s a holy recalibration for the woman who’s tired of holding it all and ready to be held.
Where being adored isn’t a reward for good behavior - it’s your new normal.
It’s where you stop leading with logic & start anchoring in trust - in your body, in your man, and in God.
This is for the woman who’s done the healing,
but whose softness still comes with an exit plan.
You’re not here to settle for 'mediocre' love.
You’re here to be prioritized daily, worshipped like a living prayer and loved like it’s his honor to keep choosing you - every year, every room, every version of you
This is where romance stops requiring effort,
and your peace seduces him, not your performance.
Where love starts feeling like the place you come home to.
Bringing you back to the woman you were before love felt exhausting - the one who leads with openness & receives without apology. My clients often experience results that feel like a true romance novel.
If you've ever wanted a "magic pill" to changing your love life - this is it. I guide you through personalized nervous system experiences that will change you forever.
You’ll never spiral alone again. Get real-time support (via WhatsApp) when you’re caught in confusion, conflict, or craving clarity. Your back-pocket Cupid. Your conflict-to-connection specialist.
They’re your weekly devotion to becoming the woman you’ve been praying to be. Think of them like romantic “homework” — but the kind that actually gets results. You’re not just learning. You’re living this in real time.
When you understand men, you stop resenting them.
You start inspiring devotion — not by controlling the outcome, but by embodying the energy that invites pursuit, protection, and peace.
A survival guide for the week when you feel bloated, betrayed by your own hormones, and fully convinced "I’m unlovable" but still want forehead kisses and for him to bring you tea without asking.
lover girl prayer e-book
Peace Recalibration™ is your go-to resource when you’re spinning in doubt, self-protection, or fear… but you don’t want to harden. These are whispered prayers, grounding practices, and body-based cues that bring you back into alignment with your truth, your softness, and your God.
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A Lover Girl’s Nervous System Guide to Safety, Softness, and Being Deeply Seen Your personalized blueprint for transforming triggers into trust — and finally feeling safe enough to stay open when love gets close
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Relationship mentor. Nervous system specialist. Real-life fairy godmother of forever love.
- shirley, marketing director
and we moved in together within a year! I’ve never felt this safe, seen, and spoiled.
After 3 years of never being pursued, I met my dream man
- Jess, holistic wellness coach
Our sex life was always good, but it’s already better than ever and more playful, because I’m not living in my head anymore.
- sarah, wedding planner
I used to micromanage his every move — now, he wakes up excited to make me smoothies in bed. He leads. I soften. And our connection? Deeper, sexier, safer than ever.
Now, nothing lights me up more than surrendering to my man’s leadership.
Our love was good, now it's holy
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- Julie, baker
Lexy really holds you through your triggers and cuts through the BS of your minds stories.
After one session, I felt like I got my boyfriend back.
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One night he cooked me dinner by the lake, made a fire, and then ravished me on the boat. I didn’t say a word. I just softened. And he felt it.
I went from single for years dating mediocre men to this man whos obsessed with me and I'm obsessed with him.
“I’ve done therapy and coaching before. How is this different?”
Therapy helps you process your past.
This helps you embody the woman who creates the future she prayed for.
Inside Forever Chosen, you’ll get somatic embodiment, real-time regulation, dating artistry (without game-playing), romantic conflict tools, and a whole new way of relating to men - rooted in faith, not fear. We don’t just talk about your patterns. We rewire them. So you’re not just aware of your triggers… you’re actually learning how to lead yourself through them with softness, confidence, and feminine self-trust.
“Do I have to be RELIGIOus or Christian for this?”
You don’t need a label, but this space is anchored in God. My connection to Him is the foundation of my relationship, my work, and this mentorship, but I never force belief or push doctrine. If you’re open to love that’s led by faith, rooted in truth, and deeper than “universe vibes,” you’ll feel safe and seen here. My personal connection to God is outside of religion, but rooted in biblical principles.
“Is this for me if I’m already in a good relationship?”
Yes - especially for you. In fact, most women who join Forever Chosen aren’t trying to fix anything — they’re here to fortify what already feels like a gift. Because good love deserves more than maintenance. It deserves mastery. If you’re ready to receive more - not because anything’s wrong, but because she knows what’s possible when romance becomes her lifestyle.
“I know I’m the whole package — so why am I still single?”
Because your worth isn’t the problem....your body’s wiring is.
When love feels far, it’s often because your nervous system is still bracing for the kind of pain your mind swears you’ve already healed.
Your future self? She’s already thanking you.