Fully Taken Care Of
You’ve mastered independence - now master letting someone pour into you.
Fully Taken Care Of teaches you the relational skills and nervous system shifts so you can be held, pursued, and cherished like the prize.
Live group program beginning April 2nd 2026
Fully Taken Care Of is the nervous system and relationship reset that helps you stop living in control mode and start feeling safe enough to be cared for.
Yes, you can do it all yourself — but God never asked you to.
The question was never ‘can you?’ — it’s ‘why are you still choosing to?
You’ve proven you can do it alone. Now come learn how to live supported.
God Is Your Trust Fund
You keep hearing “just surrender,” as if it’s a setting you can instantly switch on in your brain...
This is where surrender becomes something your nervous system understands, and it’s gentler and easier than all the self help books made it sound.
You’ve proven you can do it all alone.
Now it’s time to live supported.
God never asked you to carry it all —
but your body never got the memo.
DIVINE
SAFETY
You don’t relax because everything’s perfect — you relax when God convinces your body she doesn’t have to run the whole operation. And that’s when softness becomes second nature… the kind of nature where he’s warming up the car before you even find your shoes
HOLY
RECEIVING
You’re not “bad at receiving.” You’re just so used to being the provider that being provided for feels like a plot twist. This is where you stop pre-managing blessings like a business plan and start letting yourself be cared for. Not because you need help… but because you finally stop blocking it.
FAITH
IN ACTION
This is where trust stops being something you talk about and becomes the way you actually move. Your body stops gripping for certainty and starts following God’s cues with the same confidence you once put in control.
God Is Your Trust Fund is my signature nervous system and faith methodology that rewires your body to rest, receive, and be led - not because life gets easier, but because you finally trust the One who’s leading it.
You don’t relax because you finally figured everything out.
You relax because your body finally trusts God more than it trusts your overthinking.
That’s when softness starts to feel safe in your body, not like something you’ll get in trouble for later.
The kind where you say you’re tired, want cuddles, or need a minute, and he steps in without a sigh.
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I'm Ready to soften
I'm Ready to soften
the romance revolution is here
WHY THIS IS DIFFERENT
Aesthetic.
A mood board.
And you’ve been praised for being “so strong,” when all that really meant was everyone else got to relax while you carried the weight.
But what you haven’t been given?
A nervous system that actually makes it a reality.
Fully Taken Care Of is where:
Faith becomes your felt experience, not a mindset exercise
Trust stops being performed, and becomes embodied
Provision is received without micromanaging its delivery
You’ve been told to “just soften,”
like you can femininity-your-way out of a lifetime of being the designated adult.
Ready to get spoiled
I pour my whole heart into everything I create — and in my world, you’re treated like the most cherished woman on earth.
When you enter my virtual cocoon, you're held, nurtured, and seen in ways you may have never felt before.
I’ve walked through deep heartbreak, death, survival mode, and seasons of disconnection…
And now I live on the other side — in softness, in trust, in devotion to God. I’m here to guide you there too.
I have a gift for creating spaces where you feel safe to express the full range of your emotions — even the ones you were taught to hide. I make the uncomfortable feel cozy, the heavy feel lighter, and the healing feel playful, embodied, and real.
I’ll meet you in your softness and call you into your most feminine self — with honesty, love, and zero fluff.
I weave together somatics, feminine energetics, faith, and holistic tools that help you create real shifts — in your body, your relationships, and your life.
If you're ready to melt, open, and become the woman who has it all… I’m here to walk with you, every step of the way.
"Lexy is the warmest, friendliest, honest, loving, radiant, sparkly, confident, beautiful, and sexy woman that literally embodies feminine softness. She lives and breathes her teachings, and makes you feel safe, understood and listened to, while still holding such beautiful boundaries. A soft, but strong force to be reckoned with. She changed my perspective on life, love, the connection to my body, men, and just overall the fun of being a woman. So grateful to have come across her 🥹"
- Paula van der Laan {Soft Girl Season Graduate}
MEET LEXY
why i'm your MENTOR:
I WANT TO BE PROVIDED FOR
Working with Lexy has been such an upgrade for me! She is the most beautiful expander on what is possible to receive in life and relationships. Lexy exudes radiant, contagious energy that can't help but make you smile. She holds so much wisdom and knowledge that is woven into all of her teachings with deep compassion. Her energy is like a sword that cuts through any distortions you may be thinking of feeling.
Learning from Lexy is like taking life school. You learn about areas of life including but not limited to how to hold sensations, moving energy through your body, opening and remaining in your heart, deepening your relationship with God, clear and concise communication, and so much more! She truly is a sacred gem that will help change and uplevel your life. If you're thinking about working with her, do it!!
- Demi {Soft Girl Season Graduate | @demirosee}
{If you open this website on a computer there will be more details about each module}
10 modules inside
Spoiled Is Her Standard
01.
Styled Like a Soft Girl, Braced Like a Bodyguard
02.
From Manager to Muse
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05.
More Than You Asked For
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A peek into the course:
Rest Like a Wife,
Not a Burnt-Out Girlfriend
When Softness Speaks,
He Listens
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Retiring
"Miss Always Right"
Reserve Your Spot — Before You Overthink This Too.
That barely-contained frustration of wanting to feel adored — but getting “are we good?” energy — evaporates the moment he starts moving like a man who finally woke up and realized he’s got the most extraordinary woman in the world. And once that devotion shows up at your doorstep, being spoiled feels less like a miracle and more like “as you should.”
You may look soft, but your nervous system is still clenching like someone might hand you another responsibility. This module helps your body stop standing on emotional high alert so you can actually let love in without pre-bracing for impact.
You retire from being the Relationship Project Manager and upgrade into the woman he wants to surprise. No more sending instructions disguised as “suggestions” — you let him lead without giving him a syllabus.
Help finally lands without triggering your inner security team. And in that moment, provision goes from “is this safe?” to “oh… this is what being cared for feels like.”
You stop resting like you’re waiting to be fired and start resting like a woman who knows she’s chosen. Your stillness becomes romantic, not risky — the kind of softness men lean into, not run from.
You finally realize sarcasm, silence, and those tiny-but-violent chest breaths don’t count as communication. But the moment you drop the armor and speak from your heart — softly, clearly — he’s leaning in like you’re telling the climax of the greatest love story ever written.
He will forget. He will miscalculate. He will be tired. This is where you learn to respond in a way that builds his confidence instead of bruising it, and watch how devotion grows from there.
08.
Flown Out,
Not Burnt Out
You stop feeling embarrassed for needing help and start receiving like a woman who knows she’s safe to lean, soften, and be adored. Vulnerability stops feeling like weakness and starts feeling like foreplay.
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You Don’t Have to Manage His Masculinity
You stop “helping” him help you and stop running ahead to make sure he won’t mess it up — and finally let him carry the weight he was built for. This is where you let God lead him while you lean back and receive the devotion you’ve been praying for.
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Your Body Isn’t Betraying You
Your body isn’t malfunctioning — she’s just done letting you live on emotional caffeine and masculine overdrive. Once you understand her cues, she becomes your favorite prophet, not your biggest problem.
Is fully taken care of for you?
You’re a perfect fit if you:
Has built the business, the brand, and the life - but still doesn't feel emotionally held.
Can attract a man, close a sale, or run a household, but turns into a control freak when someone says “I got it”
Is tired of “I’ll just do it myself.” and ready for “He already handled it.”
If you want love to feel like this:
To have him hold your face in both hands before you leave, kiss you slow, and say “drive safe” like you’re the most precious thing in his life.
Peace as your baseline, not your reward. Calm that lasts longer than one reassuring conversation.
To be the woman who is thought of first.
Is a certified Lover Girl and the unofficial emotional support human in every conversation
To feel provided for in the small things: He checks the weather before you leave and brings your jacket without being asked or He notices you’re overstimulated and politely makes an excuse so he can take you home
WHAT'S INCLUDED:
11 Live Modules
To shift from “I understand” → “my whole life just changed” — because your body finally catches up to the woman God called you to be
We meet weekly for 3 months
Somatic + Embodiment Practices:
Tools to move you from the mind into the body, integrating years of self-development - so what you know, finally becomes how you live.
Live Q&A to receive
Personal Support:
Get with direct access to Lexy’s guidance, helping you shift patterns in love as they are happening - in the most supportive and non judgmental space.
Devotional Dates
(Real-Life Integration Assignments):
Practice softness, surrender, and feminine reception in the world, not just in your journal
Sisterhood of Devotional Lover Girls:
No drama. No competition. Just women who truly get you, root for you, and are devoted to building beautiful legacies of love.
Lifetime Access:
Go at your pace, revisit as needed. This isn’t about rushing your transformation. It’s about receiving it. And unlike most programs, this will be taught live, so you get real time support, guidance, and the kind of in the moment shifts that only happen when we are together.
This is where capable women learn how to be cared for
soft girl wins
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Let Yourself Be Taken Care Of
PAY IN FULL:
INVESTMENT:
$888 USD
3 MONTH PAYMENT PLAN:
INVESTMENT:
$333
COURSE & 1:1 SUPPORT:
INVESTMENT:
$2,888 USD
investment options:
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→ For the woman ready to stop carrying it all and finally be held in love
→ Bonus: $222 in exclusive extras
→ For the woman who is done waiting for “perfect timing” to receive
→ Bonus: $111 in extras
→ Includes 8 private sessions for intimate, tailored support as you upgrade how you do love [to use over 4 months]
→ Premium pathway For the woman who wants her patterns seen, held, and shifted in real time
early bird pricing until March 18th 2026
FULLY TAKEN CARE OF - LIVE GROUP PROGRAM
beginning April 2nd 2026
“I’ve already done therapy and somatic work. Why would this be different?”
Questions? Answers
Because this isn’t about digging up your childhood again. It’s about retraining how you show up in intimacy right now.
One of the core pillars of Fully Taken Care Of is learning a whole new way of relating to men - rooted in faith, honoring them, understanding how they experience love, and interacting in a way that invites devotion instead of defensiveness. You'll learn how to be open, soft and strong simultaneously - fully you, deeply receptive - and far more at peace in love.
And the practices? They’re tangible and short. Under 20 minutes. Things you can actually repeat. It’s small nervous system shifts done consistently. We also build in play. Joy. Rooted in romance & all lover girl things.
“Do I have to be RELIGIOus or Christian for this?”
No, you don’t need a label to be here. This space is anchored in my relationship with God. He is the foundation of my life, my love, and this mentorship. But I don’t force belief, push doctrine, or require you to subscribe to a specific tradition.
My connection to God is deeply personal — rooted in biblical truth, but lived relationally, not religiously.
If you’re open to love that’s led by faith… if you believe there’s wisdom beyond ego… If you’re craving something more grounded than constantly trying to align, manifest, or decode signs… you’ll feel relief here. With God, it becomes simpler. Many women inside this work are at different stages of their faith. Some are deeply rooted. Some are rediscovering. Some are simply curious. What matters most is openness - not perfection.
“What if I’m just naturally independent… and this is who I am?”
You are independent. That’s beautiful.
Fully Taken Care Of isn’t about becoming less capable. It’s about becoming relationally intelligent.
There’s a difference between independence and protective independence. Some of what you call strength is just armor. This work is about interdependence.
You don’t lose yourself. You expand your capacity for partnership.
“Is this for me if I’m already in a good relationship?”
Yes - especially for you. Most women I work with are dating or married to good men. This is not about fixing something broken. This is about taking something good and making it hot and holy. Love is alive — it either deepens or it dulls. Inside Fully Taken Care Of, you learn how to nourish admiration, devotion, and desire so your relationship keeps expanding instead of settling into autopilot.
You stop the subtle corrections, the quiet tension, the emotional self protection that slowly cools things down. You create the kind where you've been together 40 years & he looks at you across the room like you’re still the best decision he ever made.
“Is this for me if I’m single?”
Yes, sweet girl. Because overfunctioning doesn’t magically disappear once there’s a ring. It shows up in dating as over-texting, over-explaining, over-giving, over-proving you’re “easy.” Inside Fully Taken Care Of is where you build the inner posture of a wife before the man ever arrives. You learn how to receive, how to respond, how to stay at peace no matter the circumstances.
And while you’re building that foundation, God is already taking care of you now. Many women experience unexpected blessings inside this work - and last year, three met their forever loves here. You don’t prepare after he arrives. You prepare so you recognize him when he does.
I’m successful and self aware. Why does love challenge me more than anything else in my life?
Love activates your nervous system in ways business, friendships, and success simply don’t. In your career, your strengths are rewarded. Being prepared. Being thoughtful. Being the one who keeps things moving. In love, those same instincts can quietly create tension instead of closeness.
No one really teaches us the relational skills that make partnership feel steady. No one explains how men experience respect, admiration, and emotional safety differently. And almost no one teaches this in a way that lands in your body — not just your mind.
Inside Fully Taken Care Of, I do that all & simplify it. You understand what’s happening in your nervous system & you learn how to relate to men in a way that feels natural, honoring, and powerful.
