A 6-day retreat to feel closer, more connected, and deeply understood by the man you love — in a way that lasts.
Portugal - November 4-9th 2025
let him in retreat
You’re in a committed relationship with the kind of man you prayed for & feel lucky to have...You truly love your MAN A LOT 🥹
But when things get tense?
You shut down, serve silent sass with a side of resentment, and quietly punish him without saying why. Not because you're mean — but because no one ever taught you how to stay open when it matters most.
This 5-day retreat is your space to melt the walls, speak your truth without fear, and finally BE fully met in love.
Expect deep embodiment, real-time practice, and a new level of connection with your man that runs hotter, softer, and way deeper than ever before
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This retreat isn’t about fixing your relationship — it’s about softening inside the one you’re already in.
You are the woman people admire — elegant, accomplished, and deeply intentional with your life. You lead with heart. You honor your values. You show up fully for your work, your people, and your purpose.
And yet... when it comes to love, you find herself holding back.
You want to let him in — but when things get tender or tense, you shut down. You smile instead of speak. You withdraw instead of reveal. You want to be met, deeply... but fears of being too much arise, even in your softness.
You're tired of feeling like the emotionally “together” one. Tired of walking on eggshells with your own feelings. Tired of tiptoeing around your needs just to keep the peace.
What you really want?
A love that feels rich, deep, authentic, honest, and whole.
To be desired, cherished, and emotionally held — not for what you perform, but for who you truly are.
To soften without bracing.
To express without spiraling.
To open your heart and feel safe staying open.
You are done waiting for the perfect moment to say what you really feel.
You are ready to be all in — and be loved there.
🧠 You overthink every conversation and rehearse how to say what you feel, but you freeze when it's time to say it or it always comes out wrong + he gets defensive
🔥 You want to express more, feel more, be more emotionally available, but your body still braces for disappointment or rejection
💁🏼♀️ Serves silent sass with a side of resentment and quietly wishes he’d just know what you need without having to say it.
👠 You know you're holding back - one foot in, one foot out - and you're tired of playing it safe with your own heart
📚 You've read the relationship books, listened to the podcasts, but actually practicing the tools with your partner feels messy + scary + you're craving a space to finally practice what you've learned
💘 You desire to be around other lover girls, who love love, cherish God + want to be the best possible girlfriend/ wife
This is for the woman who’s ready to stop protecting her heart — and start letting love all the way in.
this is for the woman who is in a healthy relationship and...
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testimonial
“This something that has to be experienced, because words truly can’t capture the magic. I bonded to deeply with these women, healed parts of myself I didn’t know we’re still tender, and lived in luxury! I can’t wait to join another :)"
- Jaz [@jazminkylene]
“Truly no words could describe the transformation I’ve experienced in this retreat. retreat will give you the opportunity to expand in ways you didn’t even fathom was possible. From all the activities and workshops, the healing that took place, to the loving individuals that I was blessed to get to know, everything seemed like a dream."
- Ani [@miss.aniverse]
"WOW. Words cannot even sum up or describe the incredible experience of this retreat. Seriously ot change your life and help you find like minded people who will become some of your best friends."
- Maggie {@maggiemooon]
sweet Words from past retreat guests:
who this is for
the woman this was designed for
This retreat doesn’t just grow your relationship, it has you becoming the kind of woman who feels safe to receive love in a bigger way.
Because when you let your walls melt, your man can finally meet you.
Not the version of you that keeps the peace, over-functions, or bites her tongue.
But the version that’s honest, soft, grounded — and completely unafraid to be seen.
After this retreat, you’ll walk away with:
💌 Emotional safety in your body — so staying open doesn’t feel like a threat, it feels like freedom.
🗣️ Communication tools that actually work — even when you’re triggered, scared, or stuck in your head.
🌹 A softened heart and a stronger spine — so you can speak your truth and stay connected.
🧘🏼♀️ The ability to stay with yourself during conflict — no more spiraling, fixing, or freezing.
🤍 A deeper level of intimacy with your man — the kind that makes you feel safe and sexy.
👑 A new embodiment of love — where you’re no longer managing the relationship… you’re receiving it.
🪽 Feeling so connected to God - knowing that he's always protecting, providing and there to regulate you whenever you need.
This isn’t about being the perfect partner.
It’s about becoming the kind of woman who’s safe inside her own heart —
so she can finally let her man in with her
Who You’ll Be on the Other Side...
let him in retreat
schedule
9:00 AM – Sensual Morning Flow + meditation + Prayer
A slow, feminine movement practice to drop out of your head and into your body.
10:00 AM – Nourishing Breakfast
Fresh, grounding, and energizing — prepared with love straight from the farm.
10:30 AM – Workshop: Softening Without Losing Yourself
Learn how to release control, feel safe in surrender, and express your needs in a way that inspires devotion.
1:00 PM – Lunch + Leisure
Time to rest, journal, take a walk, or receive a little sun-kissed stillness.
3:30 PM – Embodiment Ritual
A guided practice to transform your old patterns + crack your heart open.
6:00 PM – Devotional Dinner
A slow, candlelit meal designed to awaken the senses and invite deeper intimacy.
8:00 PM – Evening Reflection Circle
Share, connect, and be witnessed as the woman you’re becoming.
Sample retreat schedule
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testimonials
past retreat guest love
- isbabel [@sincerelyisabelx]
- Jaz [@jazminkylene]
whats included
This isn’t just a retreat — it’s for the woman who’s ready to feel chosen again and again, even when she’s messy, moody, or mid-eye roll.
Over 6 transformational days, you'll be held in sisterhood, beauty, and depth as you soften the walls that keep you from letting love all the way in.
Here’s what your LET HIM IN experience includes:
🌿 6 Days / 5 Nights at Terra Quinta, Portugal
Nestled in the hills of the Alentejo region, just 40 minutes from Lisbon, this retreat venue is a private family-owned farm designed to bring you back to what’s real: connection, creativity, and nature. You’ll stay in beautifully restored stables — each room thoughtfully designed with local artisan furniture, natural textures, and garden access to soften your nervous system the moment you arrive.
Shared and private room options available.
🍽️ 3 Nourishing Farm-to-Table Meals Per Day
Our on-site chef will prepare organic, locally sourced meals each day — straight from Terra Quinta’s one-hectare garden. Think: slow breakfasts, fresh herbs, seasonal produce, and the kind of food that reminds you to savor life again.
💌 Daily Relationship Workshops + Embodiment Sessions
Every day, you’ll be guided through powerful practices to rewire how you connect, communicate, and open inside your relationship. These aren’t fluffy journal prompts — they’re real-time tools, somatic work, and sacred sisterhood that meet you where your patterns live: in your body.
🐎 Special Experiences Include:
🕊️ Cacao Ceremony to open the heart
🕊️ Horseback Riding through the hills of the estate
🕊️A Luxury Photoshoot For Your Man — not for content, but for your remembrance & to spoil your lover
🕊️ Become the muse. The woman who gets to be loved, seen, and celebrated in her softness.
🕊️ And many more surprises so that you will make you feel spoiled
🤍 Intimate Group Size (15 Women Max)
This space is intentionally intimate. You’ll be seen, supported, and surrounded by other women walking the same path — women who are done playing it safe, and ready to be loved in a new way.
💸 Pricing options start at 4K€ (depending on shared or private room) for early bird. Also optional VIP upgrade for the woman who desires to go all in for love!
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the facilitators
Elena is a devotional love and relationship coach who helps visionary leaders become devoted lovers. She’s the founder of the Lead Like A Lover method where somatic work meets faith-based principles to help high-achieving women soften the walls around their heart and start bravely living as an extension of love in their life and relationships.
She helps women communicate their needs with confidence, navigate conflict with grace, and create partnerships where they feel safe, seen, and deeply cherished.
Whether you’re in a committed partnership or calling in your King, having her in your corner guarantees emotional mastery, deep intimacy, and wild expansion as a woman of faith, a leader, and a lover. She will initiate you into a higher level of integrity & wholeness in your life, completely obliterating any area where you aren’t living up to your full potential & accessing the truest form of love & leadership available to you.
devoted mentors elena + lexy
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