A 5 day retreat to turn self-protection into intimacy and finally feel met in your relationship.
Portugal - November 2025
let him in retreat
You’re in a committed relationship with the kind of man you prayed for & feel lucky to have...You truly love your MAN A LOT 🥹
But when things get tense?
You shut down, serve silent sass with a side of resentment, and quietly punish him without saying why. Not because you're mean — but because no one ever taught you how to stay open when it matters most.
This 5-day retreat is your space to melt the walls, speak your truth without fear, and finally BE fully met in love.
Expect deep embodiment, real-time practice, and a new level of connection with your man that runs hotter, softer, and way deeper than ever before
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This retreat isn’t about fixing your relationship — it’s about softening inside the one you’re already in.
🧠 You overthink every conversation and rehearse how to say what you feel, but you freeze when it's time to say it or it always comes out wrong + he gets defensive
🔥 You want to express more, feel more, be more emotionally available, but your body still braces for disappointment or rejection
💁🏼♀️ Serves silent sass with a side of resentment and quietly wishes he’d just know what you need without having to say it.
👠 You know you're holding back - one foot in, one foot out - and you're tired of playing it safe with your own heart
📚 You've read the relationship books, listened to the podcasts, but actually practicing the tools with your partner feels messy + scary + you're craving a space to finally practice what you've learned
💘 You desire to be around other lover girls, who love love + want to be the best possible girlfriend/ wife
This is for the woman who’s ready to stop protecting her heart — and start letting love all the way in.
this is for the woman who is in a healthy relationship and...
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testimonial
“This something that has to be experienced, because words truly can’t capture the magic. I bonded to deeply with these women, healed parts of myself I didn’t know we’re still tender, and lived in luxury! I can’t wait to join another :)"
- Jaz [@jazminkylene]
“Truly no words could describe the transformation I’ve experienced in this retreat. retreat will give you the opportunity to expand in ways you didn’t even fathom was possible. From all the activities and workshops, the healing that took place, to the loving individuals that I was blessed to get to know, everything seemed like a dream."
- Ani [@miss.aniverse]
"WOW. Words cannot even sum up or describe the incredible experience of this retreat. Seriously ot change your life and help you find like minded people who will become some of your best friends."
- Maggie {@maggiemooon]
sweet Words from past retreat guests:
This retreat doesn’t just grow your relationship, it has you becoming the kind of woman who feels safe to receive love in a bigger way.
Because when you let your walls melt, your man can finally meet you.
Not the version of you that keeps the peace, over-functions, or bites her tongue.
But the version that’s honest, soft, grounded — and completely unafraid to be seen.
After this retreat, you’ll walk away with:
💌 Emotional safety in your body — so staying open doesn’t feel like a threat, it feels like freedom.
🗣️ Communication tools that actually work — even when you’re triggered, scared, or stuck in your head.
🌹 A softened heart and a stronger spine — so you can speak your truth and stay connected.
🧘🏼♀️ The ability to stay with yourself during conflict — no more spiraling, fixing, or freezing.
🤍 A deeper level of intimacy with your man — the kind that makes you feel safe and sexy.
👑 A new embodiment of love — where you’re no longer managing the relationship… you’re receiving it.
This isn’t about being the perfect partner.
It’s about becoming the kind of woman who’s safe inside her own heart —
so she can finally let her man in with her
Who You’ll Be on the Other Side...
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schedule
9:00 AM – Sensual Morning Flow
A slow, feminine movement practice to drop out of your head and into your body.
10:00 AM – Nourishing Breakfast
Fresh, grounding, and energizing — prepared with love straight from the farm.
10:30 AM – Workshop: Softening Without Losing Yourself
Learn how to release control, feel safe in surrender, and express your needs in a way that inspires devotion.
1:00 PM – Lunch + Leisure
Time to rest, journal, take a walk, or receive a little sun-kissed stillness.
3:30 PM – Embodiment Ritual
A guided practice to transform your old patterns + crack your heart open.
6:00 PM – Devotional Dinner
A slow, candlelit meal designed to awaken the senses and invite deeper intimacy.
8:00 PM – Evening Reflection Circle
Share, connect, and be witnessed as the woman you’re becoming.
Sample retreat schedule
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testimonials
- Jaz [@jazminkylene]
past retreat guest love
- isbabel [@sincerelyisabelx]
the facilitators
Elena is a devotional love and relationship coach who helps visionary leaders become devoted lovers. She’s the founder of the Lead Like A Lover method where somatic work meets faith-based principles to help high-achieving women soften the walls around their heart and start bravely living as an extension of love in their life and relationships. She helps women communicate their needs with confidence, navigate conflict with grace, and create partnerships where they feel safe, seen, and deeply cherished. Whether you’re in a committed partnership or calling in your King, having her in your corner guarantees emotional mastery, deep intimacy, and wild expansion as a woman of faith, a leader, and a lover. She will initiate you into a higher level of integrity & wholeness in your life, completely obliterating any area where you aren’t living up to your full potential & accessing the truest form of love & leadership available to you.
devoted mentors elena + lexy
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