Soft Girl Season
You don’t become “more feminine.”
You become a woman who finally trusts she doesn’t have to lead everything.
Because the feminine isn’t a strategy. It’s your inheritance.
Soft Girl Season is the step-by-step nervous system + feminine identity reset for high-achieving women who are ready to stop performing for love and finally feel safe being held, helped, and adored without guilt.
Yes, you can do it all yourself — but God never asked you to.
The question was never ‘can you?’ — it’s ‘why are you still choosing to?
You’ve proven you can do it alone. Now come learn how to live supported.
God Is Your Trust Fund
If one more person tells you to “just surrender,” you might actually ascend — out of irritation, not enlightenment. This isn’t about pretending to soften. It’s about finally having the body that lets you. And yes… it’s easier than every self-help book made it sound.
You’re not ‘independent’
I Want the Queen Treatment 👑
Let Yourself Be Held
You’re just convinced no one will get it right, so you over-function like a one-woman emergency response team.
DIVINE
SAFETY
You don’t relax because everything’s perfect — you relax when God convinces your body she doesn’t have to run the whole operation. And that’s when softness becomes second nature… the kind of nature where he’s warming up the car before you even find your shoes
HOLY
RECEIVING
You’re not “bad at receiving.” You’re just so used to being the provider that being provided for feels like a plot twist. This is where you stop pre-managing blessings like a business plan and start letting yourself be cared for. Not because you need help… but because you finally stop blocking it.
FAITH
IN ACTION
This is where trust stops being something you talk about and becomes the way you actually move. Your body stops gripping for certainty and starts following God’s cues with the same confidence you once put in control.
God Is Your Trust Fund is my signature nervous system and faith methodology that rewires your body to rest, receive, and be led - not because life gets easier, but because you finally trust the One who’s leading it.
You don’t soften by performing femininity.
You soften because your nervous system learns she’s protected.
You feel protected when you trust you’re provided for.
You trust your provision when you trust your intuition.
And your intuition?
It’s not instinct — it’s His guidance
This is where femininity stops being aesthetic…
and becomes your inheritance.
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I'm Ready to soften
I'm Ready to soften
THE INDUSTRY GOT IT WRONG — AND YOU KNOW IT
I'm Ready to soften
You’ve been told to “just soften,” like you can femininity-your-way out of a lifetime of being the designated adult.
You’ve been sold surrender as a mood board, not a nervous system shift.
And you’ve been praised for being “so strong,” when all that really meant was everyone else got to relax while you carried the weight.
But here’s what you already know deep in your gut:
You’re not struggling because you’re broken — you’re struggling because you’ve been surviving.
And surviving demands control.
Softness demands safety.
You weren’t built to carry everything.
You were built to be covered.
And the moment your body feels that?
You stop gripping… and start receiving.
I pour my whole heart into everything I create — and in my world, you’re treated like the most cherished woman on earth.
When you enter my virtual cocoon, you're held, nurtured, and seen in ways you may have never felt before.
I’ve walked through deep heartbreak, death, survival mode, and seasons of disconnection…
And now I live on the other side — in softness, in trust, in devotion to God. I’m here to guide you there too.
I have a gift for creating spaces where you feel safe to express the full range of your emotions — even the ones you were taught to hide. I make the uncomfortable feel cozy, the heavy feel lighter, and the healing feel playful, embodied, and real.
I’ll meet you in your softness and call you into your most feminine self — with honesty, love, and zero fluff.
I weave together somatics, feminine energetics, faith, and holistic tools that help you create real shifts — in your body, your relationships, and your life.
If you're ready to melt, open, and become the woman who has it all… I’m here to walk with you, every step of the way.
"Lexy is the warmest, friendliest, honest, loving, radiant, sparkly, confident, beautiful, and sexy woman that literally embodies feminine softness. She lives and breathes her teachings, and makes you feel safe, understood and listened to, while still holding such beautiful boundaries. A soft, but strong force to be reckoned with. She changed my perspective on life, love, the connection to my body, men, and just overall the fun of being a woman. So grateful to have come across her 🥹"
- Paula van der Laan {Soft Girl Season Graduate}
MEET LEXY
why i'm your MENTOR:
I'm Ready to soften
Working with Lexy has been such an upgrade for me! She is the most beautiful expander on what is possible to receive in life and relationships. Lexy exudes radiant, contagious energy that can't help but make you smile. She holds so much wisdom and knowledge that is woven into all of her teachings with deep compassion. Her energy is like a sword that cuts through any distortions you may be thinking of feeling.
Learning from Lexy is like taking life school. You learn about areas of life including but not limited to how to hold sensations, moving energy through your body, opening and remaining in your heart, deepening your relationship with God, clear and concise communication, and so much more! She truly is a sacred gem that will help change and uplevel your life. If you're thinking about working with her, do it!!
- Demi {Soft Girl Season Graduate | @demirosee}
{If you open this website on a computer there will be more details about each module}
10 modules inside
Spoiled Is Her Standard
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Styled Like a Soft Girl, Braced Like a Bodyguard
02.
From Manager to Muse
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05.
More Than You Asked For
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A peek into the course:
what you recieve:
💻 10 Live Modules: The only step-by-step framework that shifts you from “I understand [logically]” to “my whole life just changed,” because your body finally caught up to the woman God called you to be.
🪽 Embodiment practices + somatic mediations: powerful practices to move you from the mind into the body, so you can integrate the years of self development work you've been doing.
who is this for?
Is spiritually anchored but still micromanaging love.
Has built the business, the brand, and the life—but still doesn't feel emotionally held.
Craves ease, pursuit, and provision—but still bristles when someone helps.
Can attract a man, close a sale, or run a household—but secretly feels unseen, unchosen, and under-supported.
Is tired of asking twice. Of hinting. Of managing. Of being the one who makes it all happen.
You're tired of “I’ll just do it myself.” and ready for “He already handled it.”
Join us + lets make this world a softer place together
🐚 Weekly soul play {aligned action activity}: These are intentional, practical steps that help you take the learnings into your real life, so that you actually start seeing change right away.
🎀 A safe space to ask any + all questions + get support from likeminded sisters
Rest Like a Wife,
Not a Burnt-Out Girlfriend
When Softness Speaks,
He Listens
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07.
Releasing the Role of
Emotional CEO
🧚🏼 A devoted mentor: Lexy cares so deeply about your success + happiness, she is always striving to make you feel the most safe, loved and supported! When you're inside her programs you will feel her dedication to you!
🐬 Bonus: Special guest teachers to take you deeper into certain soft women topics.
I'm All in
That barely-contained frustration of wanting to feel adored — but getting “are we good?” energy — evaporates the moment he starts moving like a man who finally woke up and realized he’s got the most extraordinary woman in the world. And once that devotion shows up at your doorstep, being spoiled feels less like a miracle and more like “as you should.”
You may look soft, but your nervous system is still clenching like someone might hand you another responsibility. This module helps your body stop standing on emotional high alert so you can actually let love in without pre-bracing for impact.
You retire from being the Relationship Project Manager and upgrade into the woman he wants to surprise. No more sending instructions disguised as “suggestions” — you let him lead without giving him a syllabus.
Help finally lands without triggering your inner security team. And in that moment, provision goes from “is this safe?” to “oh… this is what being cared for feels like.”
You stop resting like you’re waiting to be fired and start resting like a woman who knows she’s chosen. Your stillness becomes romantic, not risky — the kind of softness men lean into, not run from.
You finally realize sarcasm, silence, and those tiny-but-violent chest breaths don’t count as communication. But the moment you drop the armor and speak from your heart — softly, clearly — he’s leaning in like you’re telling the climax of the greatest love story ever written.
You step down from emotionally managing the relationship like it’s a Fortune 500 and let yourself be held for once. This is where you stop running audits on his masculinity and start experiencing actual connection.
🌈 Life time access to these tools that will continue to support you for years
08.
Flown Out,
Not Burnt Out
You stop feeling embarrassed for needing help and start receiving like a woman who knows she’s safe to lean, soften, and be adored. Vulnerability stops feeling like weakness and starts feeling like foreplay.
09.
You Don’t Have to Manage His Masculinity
You stop “helping” him help you and stop running ahead to make sure he won’t mess it up — and finally let him carry the weight he was built for. This is where you let God lead him while you lean back and receive the devotion you’ve been praying for.
10.
Your Body Isn’t Betraying You
Your body isn’t malfunctioning — she’s just done letting you live on emotional caffeine and masculine overdrive. Once you understand her cues, she becomes your favorite prophet, not your biggest problem.
First Date
PAY IN FULL:
INVESTMENT:
$888 USD
3 MONTH PAYMENT PLAN:
INVESTMENT:
$333
COURSE & 1:1 SUPPORT:
INVESTMENT:
$4,444 USD
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